Lately I’ve had a few challenges in my life. I’ve tried to be brave and patient, and I work on focusing on things I’m grateful for.
But today I mentioned my struggles in an email to a friend. When she emailed back she said, “I can’t imagine how frustrating that must be!” Her empathy literally reached out of the email and hugged me.
As much as I have tried not to be a big sympathy-seeker, I confess I was about a quart low and needed a good infusion of compassion. Her words were exactly what I needed.
Lord, help me offer precious spoonfuls of empathy to my hurting friends today, as this precious friend gave to me. Help me stop myself before offering advice, explanations, or empty comparisons, (“at least your problem isn’t as bad as XYZ. Could be worse.”) Let me simply wrap my friends in love and say, “I can’t imagine how painful that must be. I’m sorry it’s so hard. I care.” Thank you for my friend’s example today, and how much it warmed me. Amen!
Blessings!
Sharon Hinck